She cannot adjust with my family!
He cannot love me like a family!
This was the crux of the reason we were thinking of getting divorced!
For my parents to like her, for me to have an ideal family, I let go of the ideal relationship we could have! And she too misunderstood me, judged me basis what others said! She spoke to me rudely, things in anger that made me be convinced of what everyone else was saying! And my distance confirmed her fears!
We were letting our distance grow for others, even though they were ours, they were not us!
Therapy at IWill helped us take and go back to the first step!
Where are we getting stuck! Why are we judging each other, of loving each other, letting go of the dream, of love we had for each other!
I wasn't supposed to ignore my wife for others, I was supposed to love and be there for her, for her!
I wasn't supposed to leave her if she is not liked by others, rather I had to stand by her
We both saw we had no differences, only we were reacting to insecurities created by others. We realised this was our worst mistake!
And we became closer and changed the pain forever