She/he is not the right person for you.
You find reasons to be unhappy
You are doing this to take attention.
Well, if you have been in deep pain, feeling neglected, finding life to be tough and yet all you hear is this and no change, same behavior, same pain and no understanding of your pain, we hear you.
When they need you, they ask you. You should comfort them, never they.
Emotional abuse is slow but it has some of the most painful results for people going through it.