You should stay with him. We won't and can't support you and what after we are not there. No sibling will be do anything for you.
He wanted me to do everything he thought was right, o emotional connection, 0 conversation, 0 empathy.
Not having someone in your life is better than having someone for name sake who is never there, always has prioritiies of which you are not a part. This is belittling, insulting and humiliating.
You ensure that you take care, give love and affection and yet it goes on.
You are unable to be happy, not wanting to do anything because such an important part of your relationship is there but never to be there.
I needed strength to take a step, to become ready, to be ok with taking a decision alone if need be.
She encouraged me to first focus on having a career. It was important that I learnt to be independent, that I heal, that I become part of social activities that make me feel relevant and important, that make me feel like I am worth it.
I had a job by now, not so well paying but highly rewarding and uplifting and also one where I felt valued.
Most importantly I had myself back.
I have myself back and now I have the confidence of doing it for me, whether friends are there or not, family supports or not, I will support and do this and be successful for me.
Society isn't crying on my behalf.
Society isn't alone when battling a fever even when you have a spouse.
Society isn't facing the neglect and emotional pain on my behalf.
So Society shouldn't be Making decisions for me.