Rashi Singhal
You should call us... That is your duty...
You should understand others' emotions... She is his sister. And she is going through a tough phase... So what if she said something to you. It's your responsibility to keep everyone happy...
You should say sorry and end this.. Don't think whose fault is this.
You should not speak back... She can say things but don't speak back... You should know your boundaries & "kya Shobha deta hai tumhe".So what if she never returns your wish... She is your bua saas... You should message her always.
You should cook at least one meal a day for the whole family... So what if you have full-time work too. That is your choice but "Ghar ki grahini" tum hi rahogi and this can't change.
It was in IWill therapy that my therapist helped me learn assertion, just allowed me to speak and speak and that allowed me to come to a point where I felt at least heard after a long time...
She helped me prioritize myself. She helped me say NO to things that broke my esteem, show those a mirror who were being unfair and prejudiced, and speak and communicate with those who were not doing the right thing...