The role play week was all about making at least my partner see from my perspective what all I had been through and if the same was done to others, how would it feel.
And I didn't want to say this.
But I was reminded that I had asked for some money and when he had given me that, in front of me only, it was said that my husband was responsible for so many things. And that he should be careful with his money and wasteful spending.
I was so taken aback and heartbroken then. I just said what if i today said something similar. How would you feel?
I reminded him when he was eating while sitting in the living room, how I had been stopped for that too.
His sister laughed and everyone was happy. I reminded if I say now to his sister, to not laugh out loud as it's uncultured for her, how would that feel.
Remarks on my clothes, my laugh, my work, my need to feel connected, and perhaps even my existence. What i went through for his love, his family wont go through it for an hour.