IWill blogs
Who cooks better?
She is your girlfriend but don't forget your mother is your first love.
Now that your wife is here, don't forget me.
Mummy was one of the best bhabhis to have. Her sister in laws still say that.
Never forget no one can love you like a mother. No matter who it is.
Take mummy out too.
Mummy will sit at the front seat.
Mummy is upset, you are not giving her attention. All your attention is on your wife.
Sit more with mummy, I am now scared of what Will happen after I leave.
This was my reality after marriage and I was shocked.
I was shocked because my father was not coming here and competing with my husband. No one was putting my father snd my husband against each other.
I was denied the love I deserved.
I was always on a daily basis made to feel less than oddly my mother in law.
I was broken, helpless, in a war I didn't sign up for and one that was making me feel unwelcome, insecure and hurt all the time.
I joined IWill therapy because I felt completely stuck snd devastated.
How I woke up in fear each day of being made to feel less.
Therapist helped me to first for now, focus on my health, have other friends that I meet up with, go to my parents so that i don't break emotionally.
My husband joined therapy too. It was in therapy that he saw, the only person he was being unfair to, was me, the only person he was being wrong to me was me.
He didn't underpraise me to keep egos comfortable.
He didn't shy away from accepting I was special.
He made me feel loved, wanted and comfortable in his home.