She can comment on how bad I look, how less I am capable, how there were so many better people, how she is great. She can insult me day in and day out... But I can't ask her to stop? I can't ask her that no, it's not ok and I will not take my abuse... And you are telling me...Well, I don't care... I am not scared and I won't take the abuse anymore!
But I care what I need... And it does matter to me... I am not comfortable going at. a place where there is no respect for me... I am not ok going there just to listen to sarcastic remarks, "taanas" and being poked at for their amusement and fun... My self-respect is most important.
Your salary is only this much... Why are you working so much then and for what... People earn more than this by just sitting home..
My work is precious for me... And I don't need certificates from you, how good or bad it is... If you can't appreciate me, thats fine.. You have no right to bring me down...
This was me and finally, I had developed the strength to give back and not take emotional abuse, not feel less about myself, not feel hurt all the time for not being treated well!
I had learned to stop my tears and take charge of my life, my dreams, not be fearful of what if I stand up for myself and people would abandon me..