Crying like a baby when someone remarked on my failures, reminded me of my pain and still always came back to me when they needed me.
Broken by people around who only expect me to change, be there, be unloved while they all need all the care, love and attention
She helped me learn that validation from people who just remind you of your bad even when you do good, shows they are jealous.
Or are trying to harm you and you don't need their validation. Infact when they attack, I need to rewire and learn that I may be doing something right.
She helped me become bold enough to stand on my own and assert and speak back when someone tried bullying me.
I am a real story of change.
I made my own business.
I stopped seeking validation. Who seeks validation of those who are jealous of you despite how good or bad they may be doing in life.
If you are in a state like me, start IWill Therapy, you need it.
You absolutely do need it.
You need someone to help you come out of your head, of the world toxic people are creating around you, which isn't true...