Even if some helper would be sitting, I would be singled out and asked to do tasks as though I was there just to serve. I had never felt less about myself than I felt here.
If I laughed, I would be asked to be more “decent”.
If I wanted to talk career, I would be immediately reminded that this was “secondary” now for me!
I would be always criticized, always told how I should “behave”
There was a constant reminder on how I was less, how I was a “daughter in law” and like I had to prove that I “deserved to be here”
If I expected to love and time from my husband, he would be asked to “man up” and give “equal time” to everyone and not “forget” others because I was here...
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