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She would not talk to him, ignore him, pass remarks That he had forgotten her, she would always be upset. And this had such an impact on my husband that he started ignoring me.
Now he would compare my random things to his mother and say how good she is to make her feel better.
My husband would cancel my plans for his mother.
I started feeling like there was no dignity for me in this relationship.
I felt like the other woman or person in this home.
The therapist at IWill was the person who understand me, she didn't label me as being jealous or non adjusting. But she saw my hurt emotions.
I started also focusing on my life and I stopped being available at home just for some random abuse or for endless waiting.
He understood and saw that expectation to ignore his own wife was toxic. He could see how much our love had changed, how the meaning of our marriage had now changed and it was only continuing hurt that was all there. And it was because i was being denied the love I deserved.
I was no longer living the toxic life of ignorance and denial.