My husband wanted to treat me less to please his family. Won't allow my abuse 

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He would cancel my plans to show his mother he listens to her more.

He would stop talking to me to prove to his sister wrong on a lousy remark she made that my husband is forgetting his mom since he is married.

He would ignore my needs just to prove his sister and family that he has no special place for me

When his mom would ask me to sit at the back seat as she wanted to sit in front, he would say nothing. 

When his mom and sister would say strange things to me, he would argue with me as to why I am overreacting rather than asking them to stop this.

Marriage had become such an isolating, lonely, scary, always In competition, always compared and insulting journey for me that I felt like dying. 

It was happening because they were all making me feel like I didn't deserve love, that I made a wrong choice for myself

and I would feel I was stuck now for life, without love, with diminishing career as all this consumed me completely and life gone completely opposite of what I had expected 

I was beyond depressed and I saw IWill Therapy 's article and I decided to seek help from the platform 

My therapist in the first session itself empathise with me, understood my pain

But she also helped me realise that whatever they were doing was wrong but by not healing myself, by giving even my husband so much power over me, was what was breaking me

She helped me learn that I needed to become even more successful, even more self sufficient, even more driven as I deserved to have all success.

She helped me see that if someone doesn't give me respect, doesn't mean I can't stand for myself and call out when someone is disrespecting me. Stopping someone's disrespect is something I need to do 

She helped me see that I needed to really show that his tactics or anyone's tactics don't get me and that I am not even in this race to gain his love 

He began to really feel bad for what he did when he got the same treatment for me.

He is trying to make up, tries to say nice things and do things for me but I won't forgive and want to trust him again to hurt me.

My husband has asked to join iwill therapy with me and I too want to make sure that I am not Hurt again by the man who had taken responsibility of never hurting me anymore. Never again will I allow this worst form of abuse and insult and devaluing

Thanks iwill for not only pulling me out of how I had internalized their behavior as my shame which was so wrong

but also for helping me excel in career, gain my self respect back ! 

Swati Gupta

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