My inlaws tried to break my marriage with manipulation 

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Manipulation

She is only concerned about her work.

She talks to you with such attitude.

She doesn't get involved with others and is busy with her own things.

Look at how she talks to her family and look at how she behaves with us all. She remains in her room and never comes out. 

 

This and more would be said to my husband on a constant basis when we got married.

 

I was feeling isolated in his home.

The talks were all about them and I would be made to just sit there and listen to their stories with no one interested in my talks, my family!
They always spoke about how good they are, the money, the education in family and more and almost make me feel less all the time

They would always make me feel how much I was a loser in comparison to my husband.

But my husband was failing to understand it! 

He would tell me I was not getting gelled with his family and I would then say something to him in reaction and we would have a fight! 

It was getting worse and worse where at a point I felt bullied and he disrespected on my behavior.

I decided to seek therapy at IWill to save my relationship

It was in couples therapy ONLINE that our therapist helped us both see what the real problem was MANIPULATION

She helped my husband see in several role plays how in my home, if talks were about things he did not know, constant discussions to keep him out, would he become a party to it!

If my family was just after his life to always prove how I was better, would he like and worse then complaining it to me That I don't do enough.

This should have been the opposite. To integrate in a family, you ask about the new person and that was me...

 

When my therapist at IWill helped him see through many sessions how I was abused and left alone and worse manipulation happened, he could see my pain and agony

And to me she helped me realise that my husband needed my love and empathy. And I SHOULDNT HAVE GIVEN him cold vibes and remarks. That made him hurt too and isolated. A clear communication could have helped.

She helped us both find a lot of love in each other and our bond became stronger and stronger. 

Today me and my husband are so close and no manipualtion works on us.

Yes, our issues do crop up time to time but we settle them with love, care and communication.

I am glad we broke the cycle of MANIPULATION with IWill therapy 

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