They would involve others first, my parents, their parents and then selectively attack those that differed from their view.
I loved my partner a lot. I was blindly, madly in love with them. But the inability to be myself, of constant drama, anger, sudden mood swings, of being just doing what they want and if I miss once, then their anger, the attack, the cold and silent vibes, the negligence, the lack of love would make me stand on the edge.
In the same time, she helped me focus on communicating with my partner. What was triggering such insecurity within them. Therapist helped me to see what could be that is causing such disruptions in my partner's emotions.