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IWill 2022-01-10 09:13 - 2 minute read

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My wife will not adjust to lack of respect & love. I will stand with her 

Rohit Sharma

She is again going to her parents and is also taking you with her?

Yes because just like me, she too misses and needs her parents. And I feel good there too. And they are my parents too. I don't want this to become an issue now.

You know your wife gave such a reply today to your bua. She has no respect for anyone.

I got to know what this was. Bua was disrespecting her, telling her how her work and her job is of no use or importance to the family. Would someone say this to me? 

Her work and her job are of importance to her and to me... And she just replied that... This is not disrespectful at all

 

You have forgotten everyone. I don't like how she is always around you.

She is my wife's mom and I am around her. I don't want to be a bad husband like you all complain your husbands have been.

I don't want our son and daughters to listen and see the same history repeating. And out of all people, I didn't expect this from you, you have yourself been through how isolating it can be to not have a husband's time! 

 

We don't like her. 

That's because you don't wish to. She is an educated, smart, beautiful, happy-go-lucky person, loves me a lot, is transparent... This is all I wanted in my spouse and I am glad I have it... I want to stand with her...

 

This was me Rohit standing up for my wife finally... And for her respect...

My wife Shraddha had suffered a lot due to isolation of my family, constant attacks on her personality, always an attempt to make me stay away from her or isolate her or compare her and show her to be less than others... And I not knowing what was happening, may have intentionally done some of these things with my wife... 

Our beautiful bond had almost broken when we decided to start IWill therapy couple sessions..

It was through sessions that we realized three things

1. How important husband-wife relationship and partnership should be to both of us 

2. How my wife has been made to feel she needs to adjust and change to being nonexistent, something that is totally wrong 

3. AND LAST BUT NOT LEAST, IN MY HOME, I HAVE TO STAND FOR HER, WITH HER, IF I BE QUIET, I WILL BE DOING WRONG... 

 

Therapy and our honest listening, guidance from our marital psychologist at iWill helped us really overcome this! 

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