I needed your support at your home dear husband where your people attacked me!

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You were standing quiet when someone in your family told me that i shouldn't work and that my priorities should be my home

You were silent when someone said that you are changing since you married me..and that you don't care for them anymoren

You were silent when i was sitting on front seat with you and I was asked to get up and sit behind

You were quiet when your family said that my parents can eat food after every main guest has eaten food

You were silent when my looks were compared to your Mother and in front of everyone i was made to feel less ON PURPOSE

You were silent when your sister and Mother openly scolded me for spending your money and made me feel like an outsider

You moved away and stopped talking to me in your home to please your Mother

I was isolated and I was looking for you to stand up for me, to speak against my abuse. I was waiting for you to ensure my family and my respect in your home...

 I was broken..I cried everyday, more than how they treated me, I cried at your not stopping them, of facing abuse while my husband is there....

I joined IWill therapy when I felt completely broken. And it was here that my therapist at iwill helped me find a way to stand up for myself, to assert when attacked. To find my peace, to work hard and not to take abuse in any form.

She helped me reconnect with my friends and family to feel love.... and helped me set goals for myself so that I can repair my broken self

You ask me now when I am standing up for myself, when I am looking happier and less concerned

That how can you support me... you kept quiet when you had to speak. This is your home and i married you, they are your family, you needed to protect me..

You needed to stand up for mee.

Yes you are asking to join therapy and yes i want to find a way through this too. But the pain that I got once, it will always be there...

Worst pain for any woman is to feel lonely even if she has her husband... to receive abuse and your spouse watching this as a mute spectator