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IWill 2023-02-28 02:28 - 4 minute read

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People who have double standards and are hypocritical on the face are the worst. I still don't understand how people support them 

Jyotika Bansal

I was broken and hurt and made so depressed because of hypocritical person who entered my life.

They had such double standards for themselves and me, that it was shocking and also very puzzling. And plus, if I would question, they would attack me so viciously that I would just don't know what to do next.

I'll give you many examples here to explain how they would do this.

1. They had the freedom to pursue their dreams, laugh, have a great time and also expect others to consistently please them.

But if I shared what plans i have or if I would expect someone's love and time, they would openly attack me and say things like, you should worry more about others. You should understand this other person has so many people to take care of and their own work.

And I would be shocked. This person can waste time to please the hypocritical person but a little time with me is disastrous.

2. They would always make fun of me. They would cut me off while talking, make remarks on me

And if I would say anything, even tell them how their remarks were hurting me, they would make a scandal, full blown drama, attack me so much and say so many things to me that tears won't stop from my eyes.

3. They would always gang against me. Their group would praise them and ignore me. It would be visible how they were giving me cold vibes.

And if I would even sit with people who love me or get some attention, their drama would begin, they would get all manipulative.

4.They would take my spotlight, anytime someone praised me, they would attack them too.

But then they would fish for compliments, want everyone to appreciate them. And need the spotlight all the time.

They would make sure to belittle any good thing I did, never let me feel good about myself.

And in the same time would constantly do things to make self feel elevated.

 

I was tired in their presence.

I was tired of their selfishness and hypocrisy.

I was tired of their attacks.

I was tired of how much they wanted same things, that they attacked me for.

They broke me every day and yet wanted to be treated like a queen. 

I was in therapy at IWill to heal myself. Their attacks, their narcissism, their toxicity, their gangs, their dominance had broken me.

It was in therapy that I learnt to cut them off, have boundaries, assert and stop being so weak. 

I couldn't be scared of them. Therapy helped me see my strength. 

I also started giving it back to the narcissist when they attacked me

Therapist helped me to learn to stop crying and get active for myself.

To achieve so much for self, to not sit and feel bad for how others treat me, but to get up and treat myself with kindness.

Today I am doing so well and this hypocrite has no power over me.

They still try and attack me through others and always try and create disruption in my life. But I don't care anymore.

I no longer am concerned for them and their life. 

I just need to be away from their attacks and their toxicity over me.

Worst people are those who are hypocrite. They cause so much damage to your mental health. I suffered a lot because of it. If it was not for taking therapy, I would have continued being in that abusive depressive cycle.

And worst pain is that such hypocrites bully others to attack you too. 

Jyotika Bansal

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