Welcome, you have come, I was here since yesterday, what was so important that you couldn't come earlier.
You are looking nice, oh your hair they look messy, happens sometimes, ha ha.
Wow you won an award. Congratulations, so proud of you. And also, what happened to your promotion, you couldn't get that one?
You are very smart, I wish to listen to you sometimes but most of the times I want to listen to my daughter, her advise is the best.
Glad he could come, looks like you gave him permission, without that these days he can't do anything.
Your mother is so nice. She looks very old though now. She talks a lot too. I mean she likes to talk a lot, nor everyone can talk this much.
Some people are like this. They act sweet, sugar coat things and attack you in the same sentence, insult you where it hurts the most.
You know they will make use of information that is painful about you, say things that belittle you and make you feel the worst.
They affect your mental health and no matter how much you assert, they repeat abuse you, they abuse you In a group, if they can't do it, they make others do it.
But their presence, their space, you will be made to feel empty.
And you would want to escape, not meet but still these words would haunt, because you can't say it out loud. They act so sweet that no one would believe you!
I faced this abuse for years and it broke me. It also filled me with anger and resentment that kept getting worse because it never could be spoken about. They would be appreciated for their niceness and yet you know how much they hurt You through small yet consistent and painful remarks, comparisons, insults.