Oh why are you crying, that's why i don't talk to you, I am scared of the drama you do.
You don't know how to be happy, everyone tries to adjust but not you.
I wasn't rude at all. Look at you, you don't do as much needed, I am always the one doing and hence I told you, how tired I am.
You have stopped caring, you are the one who has isolated and abandoned your family.
Why are you crying now. Don't be so sensitive. That was just a joke. One should be not so weak. I will be scared to even talk to you.
I hit you because you were behaving so strange, you were making me lose my cool, just look at your behavior.
Manipulators are very successful in convincing the person who is the victim that they are the problem.and confusing them.
At IWill, we have many therapy clients who are people who have been living around a manipulator, they know they are being broken but the layers of manipulation, the fear of what ifs and a broken self esteem makes them vulnerable.
Manipulation and breaking a person by gaslighting, is extremely toxic and isolating, therapy can help overcome, have space for self, get courage to have social network again and stop the abuse and it's justification.