Some people will always see you in a bad light and manipulate others too.

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No matter what I do, I am always the wrong one...

If I give love, its attention-seeking

If I speak my opinion freely, I am rebellious

If I make a mistake, it's intentional

If I want love, I am selfish...

If I want space, I am being not a good person...

If I stop talking, I am reacting...

 

Why is that all fault lies in me... No matter what I do, they never see good in me and it drains me and hurts me and pains me... 

How can I make them see the good in me... They always twist my words, my intentions, my love and make me feel bad...

The therapist at IWill helped me see that it's not because it's my fault... They helped my partner see that it wasn't something wrong with me, about me, I was being just myself.

She helped us see that some people who are insecure, in competition with us, will always see us bad no matter what!

We cant make them measure our self-worth... We can't start living our life basis how they feel about us, because that would keep changing, even if we did everything...They also helped us see that if I assert, speak, need something for myself, it would be shown in a bad light, not because i am wrong, but because they are INSECURE and threatened!

She helped me be free of this need to get them to praise me, or treat me with equal empathy or have understanding for me... It was almost like expecting the sun to radiate coolness, sun is meant to be hot and so were they, they had just been insecure... 

She helped my partner see that he should see me as I am...

My love was not taking him away, my being myself was my right and my individuality... She helped him see that the environment was painful for me and I needed to be not thrown in need of proving myself and being tested and left alone, each minute... It was breaking me... 

Some people will always see you in a bad light because they chose to... They see their insecurity, their own fear in you, and manipulate others to believe it... Seek therapy at IWill, get help, but never let anyone break you or make you feel that the problem is you, when it's them!

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