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If he spoke to me, he would be in 5 mins interrupted by someone who would remember some work he had to do.
If he bought me a gift, his family would give him such cold vibes that it would get awkward for me.
If he made a plan with me, he would be openly told that he was changing now and forgetting his loved ones.
All day long, I would be passed remarks on how much my husband loves his family, how in their family, it's always the birth family first.
And it was so toxic. It would trouble and empty me so much.
But worst happened when my husband started changing drastically under this pressure.
He would now not talk to me in front of others.
He would to show his indifference to his family, would move out with friends while I would be stuck all day wondering all alone, what had become of my life.
He would give his family more attention, always tried to please them, and would ignore me to accomplish this.
It almost started feel like I was just a tool for everyone to just satisfy their own agendas and egos.
I felt heartbroken but also scared for my future..
I felt abandoned and stuck.
Whole day I would be having pent up pain and anger issues. I would cry and wonder how less was my husband's love for me. It changed so easily....
Therapist helped him see that i needed him the most, I had been in a new relationship, I needed sense of security, I needed love to feel at home, not the other way around. She also helped him understand the concept of couple dynamics and how it was so important for us to invest time, love and maximum trust in each other.
But the pain that I went through was so unneeded. I never deserved what I have been through.