You feel like you are the “OTHER WOMAN”
Does your husband often express more love for his mother after showing some love to you, just to even things out or emphasise how mother is more important to him than YOU, even when its not needed?
Do you have to almost fight for your time with your husband?
Does your husband feel OK to be with his siblings, his friends and his mother is fine with it too, but when it comes to your time together, something or the other HAPPENS and either the thing gets postponed or even if you go out, it no longer remains happy moment?
Do words and sentences like , "sons forget after marriage", "now bhaiya is a changed person", "someone else’s son can leave everyone but not his mother," do things like these, are spoken in your home, just to subtly confront the me time, you have as a couple and does your husband feel scared of this?
Does something last-minute, urgent, of critical importance happens each time you guys have a plan together?
Does your husband avoid exchanging conversations with you when everyone is around?
Does your husband ignore your parents and your home, just to prove a point that he still belongs all to his family?
Does your husband cancel your plans in a moment just to fulfill other plans with his mom?
Does your husband spend hours in his mom’s room just doing nothing and does this as a habit while you keep waiting in your room or living room for his attention?
Does your husband neglects your emotional needs always saying he has roles of a son, of a man?