We need to stop taking men for granted in our life. They internally break every day and it impacts their health

IWill blogs

 

I feel like I am there just to earn a living and if I don't do enough, actually I never do enough according to my family and this is what breaks me.

I feel so lonely, if I say I am not feeling mentally ok, they say that i should understand that they are dealing with much more, it's like there is no space for my emotions.

I am not expressed love in the same manner. My sons love their mother more. They don't like me as much I think. I am not as important to them.

I just want my family to appreciate all that I do, it is tough for me. But they don't.

My mother always now makes me feel like my sister does more for her. I was going through such a rough patch and they know but this constant reminder that I mean less, to hurt me is so painful

 

These are different men in therapy at IWill. All of them feel and go through the same pain. Same pain that they are ignored, misunderstood, treated like someone who should be like a stone and someone who doesn't need affection.

 

These are men of all ages including senior men who are fathers, who feel left out and ignored. 

 

Through therapy we help them give space to explore their emotions, say things that are drowning them inside, that they don't say because they no, others will react or blame them for passing stress or not being man enough.

 

Men suffer in silence, they feel like robots, under appreciated and not loved, they feel like they are a burden on their family when in fact they are assets in ever way, providers and ones who deeply care.

Men need empathy, equal love, understanding, appreciation, and space..before getting angry on them, judging them, see them for what they are going through.

Men suicides are on the rise globally and mental health issues peaking. Therapy is one required treatment at IWILL to help the man recover, become self aware and feel.good enough. Another and important treatment is respect and love at home, less criticism and more understanding. He deserves it!