Yes we will go on this trip. I have been saving this money since last few months.
Neena really wanted to see Maldives and I am glad I can now fulfill this dream of her. I can understand everyone may have different wishes, but as my wife, this time and this wish is hers.
Arjun doesn't have to say sorry. Certainly not because you think he should. Yes we had an heated argument but we will deal with it our own way. As a couple, as two people who trust each other the most.
Initially my family would always complain how she wasn't good enough, she was childish, she was controlling and
I would listen and then either act weird, ignore or fight her
and then facing all this she would go to her friends, may be well - meaning but they would tell our marriage is over, I am bad, and each incident would just be like this,
in a vicious cycle and me her falling more apart, fighting more often, she crying louder, I becoming more silent...
And our mis-matched emotional reactions made misinterpretation run wild.
It took a lot of convincing for me to think about this but it worked so well for us.
IWill therapist helped her see from day one, who we really were, what our bond meant, what standing up for each other meant, how our emotional reactions are sometimes different expressions to same pain and how much joy we can get if we stick to each other.
It was 11 weeks in therapy and from divorce we became once again till death to us part.
From listening to everyone else about each other, we listened to us to form our opinion.
I love my wife and she loves me and we will never let any third ruin it for us ever again