Why ask a man to marry if he can’t be there for his wife?

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You are going out with her again?

Yes, I am. She is my wife. We are supposed to be companions and be in love!

You have others too. Not just your wife.

She has others too. She is giving me time. I do everything for everyone! But she is my responsibility too... if I don’t be with her, who will be. It’s not fair for me to be expected to isolate her

Wife comes after family.

She is family.

This was me Arun finally standing up for my wife! I had isolated her a lot and had been insecure in loving her, giving her my attention!

I came from a traditional family! I fell in love with my wife during our college! And it was magical with her! I loved being around her. We both had so much in common, so much love for each other!
Yet when we got married, due to my family conditioning, I think I changed! This broke my wife... she would miss our relationship, she had hoped we would get closer but I just ignored her so much!

Our relationship was falling apart! It was IWill couple sessions that allowed me to take a step back and come back to my promise to her!

Why this all started? What she meant to me! It was here that I could see how far had I come, away from love to hurt, away from the security of marriage to insecurities and hurt!

My wife deserved better! I deserved better!
I didn’t marry her to isolate her! I married her to make her my own! Make one life and it was a man’s commitment to his woman!
Glad I realized in time!
We were broken because we were away, fighting!
Never ask a man to marry if he can’t be there for his wife! Marriage is companionship for both, not isolation of one, not duty of only one

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