My mother in law didn't like my relationship with my husband. She wanted him to ignore me and me to not expect or invest time in our relationship.
She wanted that any care that happens for my husband should happen through her and any care that happens from him, should be for his mom.
I felt isolated and also I didn't like the pressure. It was unsettling
She would compare how his own daughter pampered her the most
But I wasn't here to do that. I was married to my husband and yes his sister wouldn't need his time but I would.
I joined IWill therapy and it was here that I got some hope that things will get better for me.
I first learned to assert. Speak politely yet affirmative when something wrong was happening to me.