As a daughter-in-law, worst is to see you insulting my parents. I won't stay silent anymore

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Talking rudely to my mother and father.

Ignoring them and making them feel like they are less. 

Always trying to show your arrogance and expectation that they should run behind you! 

Making sarcastic remarks on them and making them feel like they are always "open " to being insulted! 

Always making them feel like they are parents of someone less in status!

Making them feel like all their respect and work that they have done is somehow less!

Enough is enough...

I have been depressed, hurt, and insulted for far too long

 

I got married in a household full of hypocrisy! 

The women of this house as daughters want full rights on their parents and families, and want their inlaws to respect as they feel they are superior!

But when it comes to a daughter-in-law, always treat her less, never praise her no matter what she achieves in life!

I suffered it all. I was a strong career woman but no praise. I was beautiful but no praise, only insults...

And always making me feel like their son was much better or special than me. Always making him ignore me! 

I was in therapy due to their super bad behavior. I was losing my sanity, crying at work, feeling humiliated, and my relationship with my husband was also almost completely going down! And therapy helped fixed all of this...

It helped me see the larger picture, but these people are in a box, and understand that they are incapable of doing good, or being non-hypocritical!

I learned to have my boundary, interact as needed and focus on my aim!
I learned to be strong! And to even speak for what is right!

Therapy helped me give courage and see that I was no less, That generational learned trauma of being a daughter-in-law could be dropped! THAT I WAS MY OWN PERSON!
 

And I decided that I will stand for my parents... I will not let my own god-like parents be insulted even when they raised great kids and achieved so much in life!

Yesterday there was a family function, I made my parents sit at the best place, I made sure I spent all my time taking care of them. When someone spoke to them rudely, I instantly replied, you know how old my mother is?

This is a very respectable elder worshipping family, isn't it! I told my husband that come what may, I will not tolerate the ignorance of my parents.

He took care of my parents during the function!

I have had enough! I am married but I am a daughter!
Heaven is not just under a son's parents' feet... It's under a daughter's parents' feet too!
 

My parents are old too and they need care, love, and respect! And I won't let their disrespect happen anymore! ENOUGH!