IWill blogs
But Shivang, your mom was fine. She said she'll manage while my mother had a very high fever! Those things are not even similar.
Why can't you take leave from this day. Mom has so many guests coming!! She always supports us... you just care about yourself
That's not true and how did this come to you... this is a discussion i had with mummy. She said she is fine with it and understood after i explained that this meeting is important for me...
This is the third time Shivang, we are canceling any trip that we plan.... I feel like I am only important for you When something competing with mummy isn't there.
I was so unhappy... I felt so less, so lonely, so manipulated and so hurt for all that was happening to me...
I went into depression... I was crying all day...
I convinced my husband to start couple therapy... it was here that the therapist with role play helped him see what the problem was...
She made him see that wasn't it normal for a person to take care of their parents too. That if my mom has fever what would I do...
She helped him see that in this home, only he is there for me.. we are companions and i am no other family member where his role may have been standing up for his mother. I AM HIS FAMILY MEMBER!Â
Our bond became stronger and he started noticing that most of the fights we had were happening due to manipulation.